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Alright, so I recently found a Tinder guide online and decided to put it to use. Here's the link - I WARN YOU, IT'S SUPER NSFW https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-condensed/.So before reading this, I had terrible luck in getting dates and only had 2 dates in the past year! One of them, I ended up having an extended relationship with, but that's a story for another day. My goal from following the guide was to get better at this dating game with apps.
I had some shitty pics taken spontaneously by friends on their mobile cameras. I had no aim when talking to girls. I would rattle on and on about random shit and never actually meet up. My theory before was to keep the dialog going and see if we get attached well enough before meeting up. Unfortunately, I didn't realize that girls have tons of options on these apps and will lose interest extremely fast.
Improvements
Alright so, first thing was to get better pictures. I have a DSLR camera, so I decided to take some pics of myself doing random everyday stuff. Typing on a keyboard for work, cooking, shirtless and doing gymnastics rings - he recommends having a shirtless pic if you have a good body.
I also updated my bio to something he recommends. He also recommends to remove all "characteristics" on Bumble to increase the size of your market. I thought this was genius. He also recommends including the bisexual orientation to yourself, but honestly I'm not sure how helpful this was.
Messaging
Next was the template on how to talk to girls. He recommends to meet up ASAP. Within 3 days otherwise your chances grow slim. If this was Hinge, I would say something about their picture or profile, otherwise in the actual chat, I usually start with "Hey you look (cute|pretty|sexy). <Something witty from a picture if possible>. I'm <name>. How's it going?" The choice of cute, pretty, or sexy really depends on their pictures. Then I respond to whatever they say and ask "what do you like to do?" I respond to what they say, then say "You seem pretty cool. I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment. If you're down to grab coffee or happy hour, drop me your digits." From there I would text them "Hey <name>, this is <name>." Just in case it's a fake or wrong number. Also to see if they're really interested or not. I'd ask them for their availability this week to meet up.
Result
I've only met up with one girl after using this method. I wasn't too into her, so that was that.
Here's a shot of what my stats from each app looks like in 35 days:
Tinder is heavily skewed because I bought Gold for it. The boosts and super likes really help.
If you take a look at Hinge, the percentages other than the "percentage accepted" stat are significantly higher and I never bought a subscription. My theory is that I'm an Asian male and I made my preferences as Asian, therefore I was able to target the market that were more inclined to date me. This proves the belief that Asian males are the least desired men in the sexual marketplace. Bumble just sucks - even when I was running the free trial phase.
Wrap Up
Next thing I'm going to try to do is to take more pictures and see which ones in which order works the best.
The verdict is that KillYourInnerLoser's guide is pretty damn good. Let's see where things will be in another month.
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